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    It was a day of mixed emotions for our gorgeous Heather today: she was playing in a local tournament for her rugby team and she knew that sometime today she would be playing her very last game for Caerleon Rugby Team, a team she considers hers.

    She played in 3 out of her teams 4 games in the tournament today, and did very well indeed against boys sometimes much bigger than her. The last game, game #4 in particular was where she really excelled, she gave it her very best shot. At one point the oppositions #5 had the ball and came belting towards her expecting Heather to jump out of the way... but oh no... not our Heather. Knowing this was her last chance to make a memory, she stood her ground and quite simply took him out. It was an awesome tackle, I was so proud of my little girl, and she was on a high at that point it was obvious.

    However, inevitably and sadly, game #4 drew to an end, and it dawned on Heather than this was her last ever game for her club. Emotions were running high, but gawd bless all the wonderful boys on her team for what they did next. As we all clapped and watched the team come off the pitch, the coach asked Heather to fall to the back, and the boys then proceeded to form a 'team tunnel' for Heather to walk through - leading her off the pitch. I watched from the sideline as Heather spotted what was happening and cottoned on to what her friends were doing for her, and even before she entered 'the tunnel', she started to fill up, the tears followed. Oh it was sad, very sad, I can't imagine the emotions she must have been experiencing.

    She walked through the tunnel her wonderful team-mates had made, and as they shouted "three cheers for Heather..." she walked through it in absolute tears, crying, slapping each boys hand on either side as she progressed through, and receiving loads of pats on the back at the same time.

    I have to say despite being very sad, that it was a lovely experience, one that I won't forget in a long, long time. The tears soon spread out to many of the other Mums who were there, and of course to Jen too... whom Heather ran up to and gave a her a huge hug. A hug for me followed... as did loads more tears and words of... "I don't want to leave this team Dad...!"

    As you can imagine, I didn't manage to get many pics of this as I was quite emotional myself, but managed these few as Heather spotted the tunnel, her tunnel, and proceeded to walk through it.

    A day of mixed emotions indeed.







    Last edited by theMusicMan; 11 May 2009, 05:14 AM.
    John


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    Re: A very sad day: Heathers last game for her rugby club

    I hope Heather is other wise OK and in good health........
    Forgive me, you make it sound like her next hurdle will be radiation and chemo: I shure hope not !

    Nice pic's !

    Peter

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    • #3
      Re: A very sad day: Heathers last game for her rugby club

      Oh dear, sorry, I didn't mean to make it sound like that!

      Heather is fine, thanks.

      It's just that she has to give up something that she really loves doing, that we don't have to encourage her to do at all as she is always at training and at every game. She never misses... it's a big thing for her not being able to play with her mates again.

      Rules are rules, and the RFU stipulate that girls cannot play in mixed teams when they are on U13 teams. She's in U12's now, and thus this was their last game of the season and she can't play with them anymore.

      You can tell how gutted she is, just look at her face!
      John

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        Re: A very sad day: Heathers last game for her rugby club

        Lovely shots John - especially the first two. And a great way of remembering that part of her rugby career, with that touching send off.

        I presume the rules are to protect the boys.

        Nick

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          Re: A very sad day: Heathers last game for her rugby club

          Hi John -

          What emotion displayed through words and pix.

          Just think of the memories for your little girl.

          Three cheers from here for Heather. (H. I hope you got to keep the kit.)

          Regards. Barr1e
          Just like that - gone in a flash! Now in use.

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            Re: A very sad day: Heathers last game for her rugby club

            Originally posted by Nick Temple-Fry View Post
            Lovely shots John - especially the first two. And a great way of remembering that part of her rugby career, with that touching send off.

            I presume the rules are to protect the boys.

            Nick
            Hehe Nick, from the likes of Heather eh!!

            The actual reason for the rule surprised me when, this time last year, I discovered what it is. The reason is due to lack of changing facilities, nothing else! There's enough for boys v's boys and girls v's girls... but not mixed teams. Seems such a shame when there's always a way around this, as indeed there has been these last few years when Heather has used the referee's changing rooms at the venues she has played at.

            Originally posted by Barr1e View Post
            Hi John -

            What emotion displayed through words and pix.

            Just think of the memories for your little girl.

            Three cheers from here for Heather. (H. I hope you got to keep the kit.)

            Regards. Barr1e
            Thanks Barrie, it really was an emotional day and there's more to come at the club presentation day when Heather says her final goodbyes!

            I agree 100% with your comments about memoroes though, and this is what I chatted with her about during our bed-time talk as she went to bed last night.
            John

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              Re: A very sad day: Heathers last game for her rugby club

              John

              As you say a difficult transition because there are few, if any, opportunuities between U12s and the full ladies team - just not enough players - in the same way as for the boys.

              I share in wishing her well - do you have a good athletics club in the area for her to fill in the time to her next team position?
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